【Sweetheart Lover】

Chapter 180 Parenting Disagreements

The arrival of the baby makes Lin Yanan and Ruan Jianan's life busier and more fulfilling. However, as the baby grows up, their differences in educational concepts gradually emerge.

One day, the baby was crying because he wanted a toy. At that time, the family of three was strolling in the mall. In front of the colorful toy counter, the baby's little hand tightly grasped an exquisite toy car, and refused to let go. His little face was red and he cried loudly.

Lin Yanan felt that the child should not be spoiled and should be taught to control his desires. She squatted down, gently held the baby's hand, tried to take the toy away from him, and said firmly: "Don't cry, baby, I can't buy you this time. There are already many similar toys at home, you can't ask for everything you see."

Ruan Jianan was distressed. He looked at the tearful face of the baby and his heart melted. "Yanan, the child is still young, it's okay to buy him one. He is crying so sadly, just satisfy him this time." Ruan Jianan tried to persuade Lin Yanan.

Lin Yanan frowned, "Jian'an, you can't always indulge him like this. If you satisfy his demands every time he cries, he will become willful and ignorant in the future."

Ruan Jianan was also a little anxious, "Yanan, I'm not indulging him, I just think the child is still young, and it's no big deal to satisfy his little wishes occasionally."

The two refused to give in to each other, and the atmosphere became tense. The surrounding customers cast curious glances at them, which made them even more embarrassed and anxious.

When the baby saw his parents arguing, he cried even louder, and the whole mall was filled with his cries. Lin Yanan felt helpless and angry. She stood up, folded her arms in front of her chest, and stopped looking at the baby and Ruan Jianan.

Ruan Jianan squatted beside the baby and kept coaxing him, "Don't cry, baby, don't cry, Daddy will find a way."

Lin Yanan couldn't help but said: "You will only make him cry harder!"

Ruan Jianan raised his head and looked at Lin Yanan, "Then what do you think we should do? We can't just let him keep crying."

At this moment, the baby suddenly stopped crying and looked up at them with a puzzled look in his eyes. Maybe he was frightened by his parents' fierce quarrel, or maybe he was tired of crying.

Lin Yanan and Ruan Jianan were stunned when they saw the baby stopped crying. Lin Yanan walked over, picked up the baby, and patted his back gently, "Baby, I'm sorry, mom and dad didn't mean to quarrel."

Ruan Jianan also came over and touched the baby's head, "Yes, baby, don't be afraid."

After returning home, Lin Yanan and Ruan Jianan sat in the living room, facing each other in silence. After a while, Ruan Jianan broke the silence, "Yanan, I know you are doing this for the good of the child and want him to develop good habits. But when I saw him crying, I really couldn't help but feel distressed."

Lin Yanan sighed, "I feel bad for him, too. But when educating children, we can't just focus on the present, we have to consider the long term. If we don't instill the right concepts in him now, what will happen when he grows up?"

Ruan Jianan nodded. "You make sense. Next time we encounter this kind of situation, let's discuss it carefully and not argue in front of the children."

Lin Yanan agreed, "Well, we have to unify our educational concepts and not let the children feel confused."

A few days later, Bao Bao fought with other children in the kindergarten for toys and even beat them up. The teacher called Lin Yanan and Ruan Jianan to the school.

"The baby didn't behave well in school today and had a conflict with other kids." Teacher.

Lin Yanan and Ruan Jianan looked at each other, both feeling a little worried.

"We will definitely educate him well when we go back." Lin Yanan said.

After returning home, Lin Yanan felt that she should criticize the baby seriously and make him realize his mistake.

"Baby, it was wrong to hit someone in kindergarten today. You have to apologize to the kid." Lin Yanan said with a serious expression.

However, Ruan Jianan felt that the child might just be acting on impulse and shouldn't be too harsh on him.

"Yanan, don't be so fierce. The baby may know that he is wrong." Ruan Jianan.

Lin Yanan glared at Ruan Jianan and said, "It's because you always protect him that he becomes so lawless."

Ruan Jianan was silent for a while, "Then how should we educate him?"

Lin Yanan thought for a moment and said, "We need to make him understand that if he does something wrong, he must bear the consequences and cannot escape."

They decided to have a good talk with the baby together and help him correct his mistakes.

The baby looked at his serious parents, lowered his head and whispered, "Mom and Dad, I know I was wrong."

Lin Yanan and Ruan Jianan smiled with relief.